"girls just swarm around the guys who abuse them and use them just for sex."

Sad but true, my friend, sad but true. I've never really had trouble getting girlfriends, but now that I think about it I realise i've had less girlfriends over the last year and a half then ever before. The reason for this (I think) is that now i'm not consciously looking for a girlfriend... i've been there, done that, and alot of the time ended up with girls I didn't really wanna end up with (but the sex was, for the most part, pretty good ).

One thing i've noticed is that all the really nice guys I know (and I mean genuine good guys) all have really nice girlfriends who are easy to get aong with, whereas all the guys I know who umm... aren't so nice, well, most of them have girlfriends who are really good looking but either don't have much in the way of brains, a personality, or just aren't nice people. So I guess it does pay to be nice.