look man......lemme tell you something.......odviously u have never talked to a girl seen tities or done anything......as for that fact...go to parties....try not to talk to the best lookin girl from the beggining....start slo....u gotta learn how to crawl b4 u walk.......then wen u get experienced do u find the girl of your dreams...but im tellin you the bigest mistake guys can make is goin for the finest girl if they havent talked to a girl or isnt experiencecd yet.....you have to show them you care but arent to intamate at the begining....but as things progress show them you want to step up the relationship game......show them you care.............n most deff do not show them all you whant to do is get in there pants.......beggest nono you can do is that...........but i hope this helps but it has showed me......ohh and one more thing.......try to show a little game when you try to talk to a girl...not to just be like ohh hi wuts your name wanna go out?........ya noe wut im sayin try to make it smooth........take everything step by step and you will be free of virginity.......you have heard from the caucasian sensation......ima miracle worker in the bedroom....lol