I thought the same way when I was a teenager.

What you young guys have to understand is that GOING ON A DATE is your best chance of getting close to a girl. Action speaks louder than words - you can practice your routines and speeches till you are blue in the face, but it's far better to show some class and take them out somewhere first, like dinner and a movie. If you do not, then don't expect much to happen. Being cheap is NOT a turn-on to women, and never will be. Spend a few bucks and bring them some goddamn flowers, also. This makes them think you're "charming". Tell them how nice they look, even if it's a lie.

One more thing: just because you blew a few bucks on Saturday night with a girl does not mean that she is obligated to sleep with you.

There ARE guys a few guys that can easily score with almost any girl, but they are usually morons anyway. Yeah, right, I'm "jealous", lol.