Hey red! Are the hairs the actual ones that come out showing it's a female? Or just hairs all over the plants? Mine look just like this (attached pic) although this is not mine.

Thanks for the congrats chowder!!

Mand, I have a Yahoo account but have never used it. My 'handle' is luckymabdaddy if that helps. Maybe you could send me something and I can see if I get it? And what do you mean we aren't engaged??!! ha