on the note of cringing: i don't find it gross nor am i against gays in any way, just the action of seeing another guy on a guy for some reason makes me uncomfterable, even if it's through the tv. guess i'm with donnie and it's just instinct, i don't actually cringe....just kinda turn away til it's over. but another intresting note, i can watch my gay friend kiss and get all sexified (nothing actualy showing, just acting like a slut on him, rubbing against him and such) and it doesn't bother me, maybe it's just the fact that on the tv it's sexual, but irl around him i know it's cuz they're in love like i love my wife.