i feel your dilemma, mrsdarkidol... though im not married, i have been with the same woman for nearly 6 years.. we started as high school sweethearts and its likely were gonna get married..
anywho... since weve graduated into adulthood, bills and stress, our sessions have lagged off as well.. i feel like its more meaningful to have great sex 2-3 times a week as opposed to 5-6 "hurry up and get off me" sessions...
we like to change up our styles, so its not gettin tedious and little things tend to build up excitement, such as being at a bar and ill lean over and whisper in her ear something only she would hear from me, just to get her pulse to rise, and she will know whats on my mind...


good luck