hey thanks for the input. well i get to work today, and she's hanging around the corner of the bulding having a cig. so i approch her, she jumps on me and hugs me. i just plain asked her out, in the bumbling giant oaf style that only i know. i nearly started crying when she said yes. i know it sounds wimpy but if you walked 1 mile in my shoes you would understand.
***doing backflips***