Try this method dude! try to get your wife interested in what your doing,kinda kiss ass,include her into helping to get great plants,wouldn't it be nice for wife and husband growe together! my wife is cool with my grows she doesn't smoke it herself but is cool with it all the same,and everynow and then I let her grow minature tomatoe plants under my hsp lol......good luck dude,try to envovlve your wife with the grow....perhaps she may feel different towards your little operation if she hand her womenly expert opinions in there!.good luck....grow her someflowers..............now my wife does complain sometimes that I spend alot of time in the grow room lol,but at the sametime she is glad I aint spending my time in a drinking club.....