Sex and grass?

[papaw]

Okay. Let's clear this up some. This was more than a hypo than anything. I had the chance to screw a chick who supposedly had some really good grass. I was not attracted to her, and nothing ever happened. It was never like hey I'll give you some smoke for a lay. It was more along the lines of hey let's get toked up and have some fun. Plus, I never once led the girl on. She was an adult who made it clear she just wanted to mess around. This was not something where the girl was into me, she had just came out of a relationship and knew I could deliver the goods that she had been missing. (Yeah right) Anyway, on a personal note I couldn't have done that. I've never been a horndog and sex is more of an intimacy thing with me than just a physical act. I don't know why I feel the need to defend myself here, but obviously I do. But, people use sex for many different reasons. To feel loved, for security, for money, for grass, for revenge, self-esteem, for physical enjoyment, because he/she is lonely, etc., etc., etc. Why is any one reason better or worse than the next? I'll let you guys debate it as long as you want. Hell, you can even take your petty little shots at me while your hidden behind a computer screen. And all of you that said I should go ahead and screw can call me a wimp. I guess I am. But as far as my opinion, if you want to hear it, I think it is completely cool to do that if you aren't going to hurt anyone's feelings. I know that is easier said than done, but if she is getting what she wants, and you are getting what you want then who is getting hurt? Okay then. And please don't hate me because I'm beautiful.

papaw Reviewed by papaw on 08-21-2005. Sex and grass? Is it wrong to have sex with a woman only because she has really good smoke? My friend wants to know. Rating: 5

[mono repin]

I read the first post again 9ski, and changed my mind. If the only thing between me and my next bowl is sex, well then I guess win/win sounds about right.

[likemclever]

Okay. Let's clear this up some. This was more than a hypo than anything. I had the chance to screw a chick who supposedly had some really good grass. I was not attracted to her, and nothing ever happened. It was never like hey I'll give you some smoke for a lay. It was more along the lines of hey let's get toked up and have some fun. Plus, I never once led the girl on. She was an adult who made it clear she just wanted to mess around. This was not something where the girl was into me, she had just came out of a relationship and knew I could deliver the goods that she had been missing. (Yeah right) Anyway, on a personal note I couldn't have done that. I've never been a horndog and sex is more of an intimacy thing with me than just a physical act. I don't know why I feel the need to defend myself here, but obviously I do. But, people use sex for many different reasons. To feel loved, for security, for money, for grass, for revenge, self-esteem, for physical enjoyment, because he/she is lonely, etc., etc., etc. Why is any one reason better or worse than the next? I'll let you guys debate it as long as you want. Hell, you can even take your petty little shots at me while your hidden behind a computer screen. And all of you that said I should go ahead and screw can call me a wimp. I guess I am. But as far as my opinion, if you want to hear it, I think it is completely cool to do that if you aren't going to hurt anyone's feelings. I know that is easier said than done, but if she is getting what she wants, and you are getting what you want then who is getting hurt? Okay then. And please don't hate me because I'm beautiful.

This sounds fine with me.

[robert42]

hey papaw you explained well u deserve to be praised not slated, most men would use the women for pot and sex!

[mlleyeuxbleus]

NightProwler, my hometown is Lincoln (about 1/2way between Bangor & Millinocket). Also spent a few years of h.s. in Calais. And you?

[ADaisyChain]

If it was really good crack I might consider it. And so what if I'm a man-whore, there is a real world out there where people can't always survive and stick to their arrogant little principals at the same time. Trust me, you'll have to live in that world too someday.

My post was a joke. Dork.

[OR Freebird]

If everyone is happy and no commitment has been made, enjoy the hell out of it. I've done woman who have absolutely nothing to offer me (weedwise) just for the sake of fornication, and I've had them do the same to me. Tell him to think of the weed as a bonus

[papaw]

My post was a joke. Dork.

Sorry dude. But chill out with the dork shit.