just try to start talking to the girl. there was this one girl who was friends with my friends, so thats how i started talking to her occassionally. she was pretty as hell and seemed opposite of me, so i never thought of trying to get with her. but talking to her occassionally led into talking regularly, which lead to talking to her daily. i would like pretend hit on her, but not being serious cause i still thought we were too different. there were times when i was starting to like her, but i would dismiss the thought. then i thought she was giving me hints one day, and the next day i went for it, and she said yeah, she'd go on a date. im telling you, if your easy to talk to, a girl will like you for that.