Days like these ...has reminds you to respect the things you take for granted.maybe kharma played a deeper mode, the traffic cop saved you from your accident...that might have killed you too..you and your parents making the effort of bonding as a tribe..your friend that drowned this could only be his fate..grandmother even tho she died of lung cancer...she has taught you, you could live a long time and enjoy life...she smoked a long time to become a grand mom.....i think life is true..and humans are fragile...we understand the things we dont want to understand..that life moves on ticking away...things come and go..but us humans..the fragile ones..must have faith......tokes...hey just trying to cheer you up...with out the saddness there wouldnt be a happiness...