Quote Originally Posted by st0n3r
well many of you who read this prob won't care or even give a damm bout posting, so im saying this to the minority who do care and like to help others out like myself.

ok it may sound extremely pathetic but it is very unfair and extremely stubborn of my father, he moans that me and my brother leave stuff out of the fridge e.g milk, butter etc. leave sauce out and etc and etc. but my dad says 'im fucking fed up of tidying your mess up'' but the truth is my dad always leaves dirty knives out, bread crumbs everywhere, cups and plates all over the house, undrunk tea on my pc desk which pisses me right off, always leaves his washing up, and even if me or my brother put like one cup in there he has a 12 year old tantrum and starts yelling about how he has to clean up after us. he always leaves sauces out even WORSE than me and my brothers, like without the lids on, butter without a lid on, leaves doors open, paper towels and clothes all over the counter, anotehr words, very very messy.

and i'm just getting fed up of it, if i confront him about it, he starts to yell ''dont fucking answer back to me'' and even if i get him in a right mood of judgement by saying i always clean your mess up, prove evidence and etc, then my mum butts in and says 'yeh but ive always gotta clean your mess up', another point that fucks me off, my mum always sticks up 4 my dad even if hes wrong..........she wud cook him dinner sumtimes and not me.........i ask her y she didnt cook anything 4 me cuz ur able 2 cook it 4 him......and she jus goes *huff* and walks out the room.

to be honest i think this is a fucking embarrasement to me and my family bcoz me and my brothers act extremely differently, we look out for on another, we get each other stuff n etc, but my mum and dad just feel like they r not related to me, i know it may sound very harsh, and i know its not true but it has been like this for ages.

what do you recommend i do? if i keep argueing at my dad he will probably end up hitting me or punishing me unlike my mum will just slither up to my dad. suggestions please if you would......i'm going for a joint..........peace.
O.K.
Check it out,got a few ?'s for ya
1.Is your name on the check that pays the note/rent?
2.Who does your laundry,or better stil who pays for the utililty's,soap,washing machine so on?
3.Do you think that your parents love eachother?
4.Do you think your mom is a maid?
I could go on all day cause I have asked my 16 year old girl all these's question's.You need to be responsible for YOUR action's what ever they may be.I am sure you know right from wrong,your behavior falls into the wrong.
UNLESS your answer to ? 1. is ME, you have very lil right to argue.
Damn It just do as he ask's,not like he is asking you to do something you should'nt be doing anyway.
Seriuosly it's not your mom's job to pick up after you,sorry if i am being harsh but its the truth.If you are responsible enough to go and purchase cannabis you should be responsible enough to clean up after yourself.
I hope I have giving you lil insight cause you need it.
Show some maturity & do the right thing,after all they did give life to you