HELP ME!!!

[Not Enough Herb]

god dam i hate when this happens...well heres the story

ok ive been dating my gf for almost 5 months now, this is the 2nd time weve gone out...yea at first things were awesome, she is cool, drinks and smokes...so much sex i dont even remember how many times...

well lately ive been thinking about all the shit thats happened...guys have made moves on her and taken advantage of her while she was drunk before weve gone out and once when we went out the first time...at first all i could say is w/e and didnt think to much of it...but lately its fuckin pissing me off....i dont even wanna see anymore..like i dont trust her...i love her but i think more happened then what she told me...like if u dont like sumone u would say no to them so obvously theres more to the story

anyways...at work i met this other girl...shes italian like me..cute, funny out going. hott and i just wanna kiss her so bad...but she's forbidden fruit as long as i have the relationship shackles around me

i dont no wtf to do...i love my gf but this new girl makes me forget my gf even exists...god i hate this

any advice...or if you've gone through the same thing ( if your a girl or guy i dont care ) PLZ POST.. i dont no what to do and its driving me crazy

HELP!

later

Not Enough Herb Reviewed by Not Enough Herb on 08-14-2005. HELP ME!!! god dam i hate when this happens...well heres the story ok ive been dating my gf for almost 5 months now, this is the 2nd time weve gone out...yea at first things were awesome, she is cool, drinks and smokes...so much sex i dont even remember how many times... well lately ive been thinking about all the shit thats happened...guys have made moves on her and taken advantage of her while she was drunk before weve gone out and once when we went out the first time...at first all i could say is Rating: 5

[DonnieDarko]

i dont even wanna see anymore..like i dont trust her...i love her but i think more happened then what she told me...

...i love my gf but this new girl makes me forget my gf even exists...god i hate this

Stop saying you love your gf ... I'm sure you got feelings, but it ain't love (its probably the sex, and the fact that she likes you). Do either one of 2 things:

1) Tell your gf exactly how you feel, and have an honest discussion about the status of your relationship. After this, you'll both know if it's better to commit or move on.

OR

2) Just move on.

[mellow mood]

exactly. tell her what u said out here, even if it may be difficult, than if u feel she doesnt love you anymore or if u feel U doesnt really love her anymore, than go ahead for that italian girl if u really like her.

its your choice man. but if u fell in love with that italian chick, youll have to do a move quick..

[Dragonslayer4200]

well dude my girl before we started dating were friends but i knew she was a party slut and i really didnt mind hanging with her then but then when we started going out it would bother me to think about it or even wanna fuck her any more or really do anything with her like a boyfriend would do kinda stuff along with sex so i asked a question and it was Is a girls Past one i wasnt envoled in which she was a slut really more important to me as to what i got now? well it wasnt so i grew some balls smoked a joint and just delt with the fact that she was a slut and fucked and sucked off lots of guys and had threesomes and foursomes with guys and girls just like the kinda things i have done and dream about so i delt you should do the same cause love only comes knocken once bro.

[mellow mood]

ok i got a better answer. u broke with her, and those 2 chicks become your fuck friends

[Cheery Cherry]

Hmmm, trust is pretty important in a relationship and if you can't trust her, what's left? You said she was sleeping around when you two were together, even though she said she was drunk and probably was out of her control...still, if she knows how she gets when she gets drunk (men taking advantage of her), she wouldn't be getting drunk without you. It just sounds to me like she is using being drunk as an excuse.

I say move on...that's just my opinion though.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Stop saying you love your gf ... I'm sure you got feelings, but it ain't love (its probably the sex, and the fact that she likes you). Do either one of 2 things:

1) Tell your gf exactly how you feel, and have an honest discussion about the status of your relationship. After this, you'll both know if it's better to commit or move on.

OR

2) Just move on.

*thumbs up*

[kid rediculous]

Hmmm, trust is pretty important in a relationship and if you can't trust her, what's left? You said she was sleeping around when you two were together, even though she said she was drunk and probably was out of her control...still, if she knows how she gets when she gets drunk (men taking advantage of her), she wouldn't be getting drunk without you. It just sounds to me like she is using being drunk as an excuse.

I say move on...that's just my opinion though.

I concur.

[Not Enough Herb]

hmm very valid points

i shall think all of this over since im going up north for a few days

lol too bad we couldnt just have a sexy threesome

anyways

later

[slipknotpsycho]

i've learned in my relationship life that if you don't tend to be overly paraniod, you tend to know when she's cheating on you. listen to your instincts, or even better test her....get a friend she don't know to try and make moves on her (not acutally doing nothing, just try to see if she gives in) if she does, then she's no good....move on, if she doesn't (and you're sure she don't know this friend) RETEST HER WITH SOMEONE ELSE, then if still a no-go she's faithful, either that or really smart.