Fighting with Parents

[NOTEHOOK]

Ok, so I got in a HUGE fight with my mom. About money. Never let your parents borrow money!! Ok, so I was RIGHT in this arguement, and I'm not stepping down. But... the tension in this house... you could cut it with a knife. She won't talk to me. Wtf do I do?! This is rediculous. Like 5th grade all over again.

NOTEHOOK Reviewed by NOTEHOOK on 08-13-2005. Fighting with Parents Ok, so I got in a HUGE fight with my mom. About money. Never let your parents borrow money!! Ok, so I was RIGHT in this arguement, and I'm not stepping down. But... the tension in this house... you could cut it with a knife. She won't talk to me. Wtf do I do?! This is rediculous. Like 5th grade all over again. Rating: 5

[NowhereMan]

as a parent i can say this.not that it is What your situation is ,

kids take advantage of the fact that when they need or want
"we pay for it",
at sometime in the future we expect you to start
"paying" for your own stuff,
and while ya at it,dont forget mothers and fathers days.

nick when ya say ya fight every other day over the stupidest shit then let me tell ya this, it is not JUST them being that way,stop some your shit and maybe they stop some thiers.and yaw will get along better,Hopefully anyway, i hope you do.

when was the last time you did something to help your parents out without expecting something,a allowance and trip and new 4 wheeler ,something ???
as a parent i can say 'we do all day every day for you kids and only expect you to grow up and not be a axe killer and make your living doing something you enjoy at best and can stand at the worst'
admits,some parents are fucked up, hope yours aint cuase then your on your own.

shock them and clean the house up,hehehe
they will wonder what you did wrong (jokes)

peace

[HighTillIDie]

Don't worry about it man... mother's need children for power, eventually she will brake down, or something will. Parents forget that it is their damn fault for havin kids, and the kid owes them NOTHING... but most kids forget, your parents don't have to do a damn thing for you other than clothe, school, feed, and house you.

My mother has treated me the exact same since i graduated high school... no respect... she doesn't see me as an equal individual, even though as a male adult, i am superior to her in this world (we all know the truth) parents are VERY VERY reluctant to give up power or dominance... which is why alot of parents maintain a monetary hold on most of their children for years after they have left their household. As i grow older and pay more and more attention to my friends, or others parental relationships i see this true... parents (or human beings for this matter) cannot seem to admit inferiority... the child can't admit he is inferior in aspect, and the parents can't do the same... people simply forget... we are all equal, no mater the age or experience... don't believe me, shoot somebody who is rich, intelligent and experienced in the arm, then shoot a poor, young, dumb dude in the same spot.... similar results... just more swearing from the kid

[mellow mood]

i hate parents they ALWAYS think they are right.

[UniqueShadow08]

good point. Yea me and my rents get in fights sometimes but obviously later on i think look if they didnt care they wouldnt buy me shit like they do...im thankful but sometimes i really just think they can be narrow minded.

[mellow mood]

my mother always ask me stupid question such as: do u really think it was a good idea??? then i answer yes. then she says: dont be stupid, do u really think it was a good idea? then finally i just say yes biatch and i get the fuck out of the room coz i cant stand her

[unmeg]

This is the best advice anyone could ever give fir the situation at hand,are you ready?
MOVE OUT! Problem solved.
I had a problem with my step prick(he just die in horrible car crash few months ago,KARMA) when i was 15.Moved the fuck out & moved in with my brother for about 1 year.By that time they begging me to come back(i was getting survivors bennifits from my dads death).Turns out they realy counted on my money to help with bills.My folks had a social drinking problem(drank in bars only$$$$$$)so they neede me.The step hated it but had to be nice after that.I LOVE IT WHEN A PLAN COMES TOGETHER!!!
Good Luck,hope you guy's work out something cause all you got sometimes is your family,like it or not.

[FunkyMonkey]

Hightillidie:
You just said both that you are superior as a male adult then went on to say we are all equal.
Which one of your statements do you believe?

[Killa.Kali]

My mom is always pissed at me for something lol I dont know your family or how it works but in my house if she starts bullshitting I fight it til i hit that wall where no matter what the arguement isnt going anywhere, then I just walk away and forget about it. I fight with my mom probably 90% of the time, and its been that way since I was about 9-10. Even though others agree that she is wrong including her husband (my stepdad) my real father, my grandparents (her parents) and even the psychiatrist she still insits its me whos fucked up haha, some things just never get resolved =\ sorry to hear bout ur fight they kinda suck

[Anonymous]

yah i found out my mom went to my friends house and told there parents that i was on hard drugs so most of my friends have to lie to there parents to hang out with me now all becuz i had poped a few pills on the weekends and i found this out after i moved into my dads and he told me that about 6 months ago she bought an 8 ball of coke cuz she wanted to see what it was like cuz they use to do it a long ass tiem ago