Quote Originally Posted by kid rediculous
I had a similar problem a while ago. This girl would be all over me and then be like your such a good friend. This is what I did: go to a party with her and then hook up with a girl that is not as hot as she is (I'm not talkin' ugly I'm talking like a 6 or 7). Then the next day tell her how great it was. She'll be on your cock in a hot minute.

I'm having the same problem now though too. I always go over my friends house to drink and smoke and have a good time and since he's 23 his parents don't care whats going on (I'm only 17). His 20yr old sister is always all over me but I'm so confused. She is gorgeous, the most beautiful girl I have ever met, and she's so cool too. I just can't seem to close the deal. I know she wants me, but how come she isn't hooking up with me? She always tells me that she thinks I'm so hot and shit and then she'll leave and go to bed. Should I just be like, can I join you or should I just let her go? I slept over the other day (not in the same bed, downstairs) and nothing happened. This is really pissing me off and I was going to start a thread about it but since this ones already here I might as well just post here, since its the same thing. All my friends also think that she wants me too and they all say that she is all over me, but none of us can't figure out why she won't hook up with me. I only have a couple of weeks before we both leave for college and she is going away for a few days so I won't see her for a while.

PLEASE I NEED HELP GIVE ME YOUR BEST ADVICE.
I would advise you to try something that nobody seems to practice anymore: be a gentleman - at least for a few dates. I KNOW it sounds corny, but it still works. Go on some old-fashioned "dates" - you know, dinner and a movie, bike riding, picnic, the zoo, amusement parks, all that kind of "romantic" stuff. It is YOUR job to "hook up" with her, even though women ultimatly pick us.

Even if all you want is to get laid for a while, it still helps to give them the "you're special" treatment. Send them some flowers, a card, or both Believe me, the greeting card routine has been very good to me lol.


Good luck!