Quote Originally Posted by IrieAllie
As a female (and a stoned one at that ) Let me tell you something! Although I am NOT proud of it, I TOTALLY enjoy a man who is hard to get. My husband included!!!! I mean, if he's so OBVIOUSLY into me, its really no challenge. Basically, I know it's there for the taking. Now keep in mind that you need to show SOME interest. I mean, don't do the whole "I could give a shit" thing... Talk to her....tell her she looks good. Tell her she can't IMAGINE what would happen if the 2 of you were behind closed doors...better yet, a casual, slow kiss...then walk away. She'll be the one thinking "WTF?" and SHE will pursue YOU. Don't hesitate to flirt with other chicks in her presence--but don't be an asshole about it. Am I being juvenile for a 35 year old? You bet! But it's the games people play. I LOVE when my husband is all over me, then is like "good night." Leaves me baffled...and horny! And we've been MARRIED 9 years!

The worst thing, in my opinion, is a guy who is all googly over a woman, and doesn't present any type of "game". I admit, I love a good game!!!! Then again, my husband says I am too much of a "guy" for his liking. I am NOT into the whole "hold me, talk to me" shit. Let's go have some great sex, a bowl, a few beers--not necessarily in that order--and watch a football game. I don't have time for the "cuddle" shit--I have things to do.

Good luck to you
Most informative post ever. I'll be trying that nice slow kiss as many times as I can this year.