er...maybe it just me but i would've told him to fuck off.or atleast tell him if he can get the safe open he can flush all the stuff he wants...i know that people are scred of being grounded or hit but if you give up once you've just given up for the rest of the time you live with him.i told my dad i was not going to stop because it wasn't haveing any negitive effects and it didn't matter how i was doing in school because it was the summer(when he found it)now,because i've stuck it out,and not let him get a word in without me giveing a reasonable contradiction.i can smoke as long as the house doesn't stink like a skunk when he gets home and as long as i dont do it on school days
i leave all my stuff on my dresser of bookshelf,i leave my 29 1/2 in' homemade bong in my closet in plain view.and my dad doesnt say a word.not to say your dad isn't right on other things but dont give up when it comes to pot.he's still your father and you should respect him(you obviously do since you told him about your smokeing)but let him know you havent quit and wether he beats you with a rusty broom stick(report him for this acctualy but he doesnt seem like the type ) or grounds you for eight years just take it without argueing and keep on tokeing.good luck man! and i dout he threw the bong away(or did he?did you see him do it?)but make sure you dont let him forget he owes you $230 wether he will ever pay or not.good luck man how he makes a turn around.oh and be sure and let him know what you think of his girlfreind(tell her to stay the fuck out of your business)