Ok well i debated posting this but i think that you are going to need some help with this girl and your best bet is to go to this site here. It might not look like its for you but trust me there is definetly some good information that you can use in his programs, and there is even alot of info you can use in his newsletters.

It is going to look like another one of those BS sites that dont teach people anything and it costs them money for it, but trust me i own 4 of his programs and i am a member of his monthly interviews. A friend of mine i have known for many years told me he has it too after sharing some things we booth learned. I have nothing but awsome thing to say about this guy.

Even if you're sceptical about it do me a favor (since i put myself in the line of fire of other people here ) and read his newsletters (these are free) for a month, they come out every few days and its going to help. Mind you i do not get anything for refering you to his stuff nor am i affiliated with him.

Good luck with her, seems like your a really awsome guy, she just doesn't know whats best for her. You need to create attraction for you (you will understand that more when u read his stuff) in order to make her see that you are better for her.