Well, I don't mean to be graphic.. but just because that dude gave his sperm doesn't really mean that he's the "dad", he just contributed to making him, if that makes any sense.

Clearly, you are being more of a "dad" by comforting the mom, just being there, giving money, etc.

Yeah XTC, you're a cool guy. Hopefully she'll see how much she means to you, and she'll come around sooner or later.

Good luck to both of you, and let us know how it turns out!

By the way, does the girl smoke weed?

EDIT: Holy Fuck! This is my 420th post! Let's all smoke a bowl or 6!