Well, last night he came home from work--went right for a beer. Comes into my office and says "Looks like we're out of beer." I said "Looks like I'm out of weed, too." He didn't say anything for a bit, and then said "Yeah, I flushed it down the toilet." Which I knew was a lie. He told me that I don't "need" to smoke it...and I reminded him that neither of us "need" to smoke cigs, or "need" to drink alcohol either--but that must not count, since he does both. He's llike "Fine. I won't smoke OR drink." I said "That's not the point. I am not telling you to stop doing anything, because it's YOUR choice of whether or not you WANT to smoke or drink." I got my weed back, needless to say