I know what you mean...Mr. o2 rarely does and I get the 'look' like I'm Jennifer Connelly in Requiem for a Dream..never mind that I can go to any doctor and get fistfuls of xanax... found out the other day that my daughter's best friend's mom, whom I have known for 9 years, is a closet smoker like me. Her husband works for the school district and of course disapproves...so the other day we were sneaking bong hits and spraying perfume/visine and giggling like we we kids again and didn't want dad to find out. I feel for ya