What to do????

[likemclever]

you have every right to be pissed. That's what I have against marriage. You put a ring on your finger and your mate starts thinking of you as a possession. You handled it well, using way more tact than I would have been able to muster. Congrats and good luck.

[naluman]

ever think about getting med pot license? then this way he cant be against it...because of the doctors orders,.,,,cant sleep..stress ..is a common everyday problem with really no cure......another thing is .....hes your husband....and this is who you made a family with....communication is very important and understanding ones needs is too....it may take a awhile but he will come around.....good luck......

[IrieAllie]

you have every right to be pissed. That's what I have against marriage. You put a ring on your finger and your mate starts thinking of you as a possession. You handled it well, using way more tact than I would have been able to muster. Congrats and good luck.

Just when I was getting withdrawals from Sex and the City I do love the single gals...and miss it sometimes!!!!

I agree...and I am not doing--or NOT doing--something that makes me feel better, that I ENJOY, and that has no effect on my work, parenting or relationships because a man says so. He's free to have his opinion, and I respect it. Just as he will respect mine (whether he knows it or not!!!!).

I told him that if he'd rather me sneak around, instead of him being open minded, he's going to have one HELL of a problem when our kids get older. Now, not that I would say to my 14 year old "Hey, go up to your room and smoke pot." Kids WILL experiment with alot of things...drugs, alcohol, sex, you name it. It's the values you instill in them NOW (at 4 and 6) that (I believe) will determine how they HANDLE experimentation.

By the way....still smokin', sleepin like a baby, and NO SWEATS!!!