I recall seeing SOLDIERS on the news with missing limbs wishing they could be back with their brothers in arms! You can take one person out of any given situation and get a different interpretation.

As far as the exit stratagy is concerned. The boss at my work place surely doesn't consult with me as to when a project should accure and how it should be done....why the hell does anyone think that the powers in Washington, London, and Bagdad have to consult with a soldier in the field about an exit stratagy?