"Having Sex with Spouse who does NOT....."

[Jack Saturn]

(well,not ANYMORE,anyway)puff on weed is the topic of my first post,here.After a 7 year lay-off period,I have found myself,once again,a casual partaker of the herbal kind.I was tryin to see if it took the edge off the PRESCRIBED drugs I gotta take.I take Methadone,Prozac, and Xanax for Chronic Pain and Dexedrine for ADD.I feel like a freakin' can of worms by the time I get home from workin,so's my pal says he takes a few one-hitters when he gets home and it does the trick for him (He has Chronic Pain,also,meds similar to mine).I figured I'd see if it helped me,and it did.The problem came when I told Wifey about it .She did not react like I had thought she might(Her and I started dating as a result of her looking for a bag and askin me)since we smoked for years ,together.She thought it would be un-cool because we have 2 girls,15 and 9,now,and she's afraid they'll find out.I had'nt planned on advertising it or being flagrant about it,I can sneak along with the best of em!Now,she's been actin funny most of the time,not wantin to mess around or nuthin.Anybody been down this road?If so,did you get past it? Jack Saturn

Jack Saturn Reviewed by Jack Saturn on 08-02-2005. "Having Sex with Spouse who does NOT....." (well,not ANYMORE,anyway)puff on weed is the topic of my first post,here.After a 7 year lay-off period,I have found myself,once again,a casual partaker of the herbal kind.I was tryin to see if it took the edge off the PRESCRIBED drugs I gotta take.I take Methadone,Prozac, and Xanax for Chronic Pain and Dexedrine for ADD.I feel like a freakin' can of worms by the time I get home from workin,so's my pal says he takes a few one-hitters when he gets home and it does the trick for him (He has Rating: 5

[peji]

Thats Good u partake in Herbal Medicine it does work w/ many aliments...It's too bad she feels that way now not wanting to be intimate after your talk,but I wouldnt let that stop me especially if it helped me w/ reducing my other meds...Wishing u the best w/ your situation

[kronick]

sit her down and have a good discussion on why this is happening, instead of asking us. im not trying to be rude or anything but ull definatly get better results if you ask her.

[GHoSToKeR]

Weed is an aphrodisiac. Put some in her food.

[MeatRulz]

weed owns.

[slipknotpsycho]

yea i went through that....just get this attitidude like "alright fine i don't care i'll be fine by myself" and stick with it for a week or so then she'll be beggin for it...atleast...if it works on her too that is.

[Jack Saturn]

I re-read my first post and afterwards realized I left out a bit of info. Wifey has had Migraine Headaches for 9 years.She has tried many things,up until 3 years ago when they dropped my insurance where I worked.I'm self-employed now and we only have insurance on the kids(state-funded),we've not found anything we can afford,so her doc has her on basic,inexpensive treatment.I saw where many folks that suffer from Migraines got great relief from smokin weed so I was hopin she might be willing to give it a try.We ain't had no sex life since she started them headaches.It's been very rough on her and I ,both,but she did not want NO part of the smoke!If it helped those awful headaches,I would not care if it was a dry cow-pie,but I guess she feels different.BTW,I have thought about slippin some in her food,I remember how good things were when we DID SMOKE.It really was.When she quit,she changed.Bigtime.Thanks,JS

[kronick]

what ever you do, do not slip some weed or other drugs into her food...thats all around bad news and bad morals. smooth talk her into taking a few hits from a joint when she starts to feel a migrain commin. if u have to say "just this once time and ill never ask u again" go for it. if it works, u wont have any problem getting her to toke again...well, for a while anyway.

[slipknotpsycho]

and if it comes down to it...you are married and both capable of making your own decisions, so just tell her: it helps me, if you don't want me doing it...find something that works just as well and i'll drop it (just make sure that no matter what even if it does "work" that it doesn't work lol)

[420purplehaze420]

yeah i no many people who say weeds the best thing to happen to there migrains, just try and persuade her to take a few hoots o yeah and y did she quit kids er somthin?