thanks darkidol thats some damn good advise and i appriciate, I'm gonna break up with her bit by bit. Try and make it easy but kidna fast so its not slow and torturous. I'm gonna say we need some time apart, then we need to just be friends, then if i can i'll stay friends with her. Then maybe in a few months she'll figure it out that im going out with jennifer, but i really wanna avoid the whole "You broke up with me for HER!?" bullshit that would inevitably go on if i told her i was going out with jen instead of her all of a sudden. I think my g/f is really conceited and she thinks shes alot better than jennifer and so it would probably crush her.