Delima, can you help?

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Okay HEY GUYS, hows it going? Well thats good lol. ANyways heres my delima.
OKay well i told some drinking friends they could come over tonight and we would drink and shit.Specifcally two dudes(maybe 3) and one chick. Plus me and sasha. Well heres the problem i did this a few nights ago(more ppl tho) and sasha didnt want to have ppl over in the first place but i did anyways, she had a shitty time the whole night and just kinda sat on the computer by herself. Now she still says she doesnt want people over....errr She doesnt really want people over, but she'll just be the same way if they do come over.
So now im not sure what to do? Should i just tell everyone i cant hang out?(since its only a few people?) or have them over and just deal with sasha being upset/depressed? THANKS for any advice......damn it

sToNeDpEnGuIn420 Reviewed by sToNeDpEnGuIn420 on 07-29-2005. Delima, can you help? Okay HEY GUYS, hows it going? Well thats good lol. ANyways heres my delima. OKay well i told some drinking friends they could come over tonight and we would drink and shit.Specifcally two dudes(maybe 3) and one chick. Plus me and sasha. Well heres the problem i did this a few nights ago(more ppl tho) and sasha didnt want to have ppl over in the first place but i did anyways, she had a shitty time the whole night and just kinda sat on the computer by herself. Now she still says she doesnt want Rating: 5

[kiwi]

MATE..........you need to sit down and have a talk to her about why she feels this way to start with???? The way I see it is at least your staying at home with your friends and having drinks, you could be out aye? Talk to her mate..............

[Lily420]

Hey penguin...i think Sashas being unfair...dont you two see eachother everyday? And how many times do you have a bunch of people over to hang out? I dont understand why she doesent want people around...perhaps she has her reasons. *shrug* I think you should talk to her more about the subject and work out a solution. Good luck!

[Fattie]

You should of course not try to upset anyone, but you already told people that they could come over, did you ask her before inviting them? If not, i suggest doing that next time, other than that just make an early night of it, to keep her from being upset. Just make sure you spend alot of alone time with her tonight regardless.

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

MATE..........you need to sit down and have a talk to her about why she feels this way to start with???? The way I see it is at least your staying at home with your friends and having drinks, you could be out aye? Talk to her mate..............

I tried! i really did! Probably not as much as i could, but i mean i asked why and she just says she doesnt know, and thats the same thing she said last time. Grrrr damn it.

[kiwi]

Hmmmmmmmmmmm........ok so the talking thing didn't work!!!!! Maybe she just doesn't like having to share your attention with other ppl? I don't think you should cancel your night with your friends, but perhaps you just need to involve her with conversation etc?

[sToNeDpEnGuIn420]

Hmmmmmmmmmmm........ok so the talking thing didn't work!!!!! Maybe she just doesn't like having to share your attention with other ppl? I don't think you should cancel your night with your friends, but perhaps you just need to involve her with conversation etc?

Yeah thats what im gonna do, or something like that, just spend more time with her then i did last time, Cuz last time i just followed the people around(there was like 5 people over last time) Cuz i wanted to make sure they werent breaking shit and what not, so i will just make sure to spend more time with her, cuz this time there will be less people.

[kiwi]

Good move m8.....but its not that you want to go though this every time you want your m8z over, so you still need to get to the bottom of why she is like this? I hope things work out for you m8?

[rastabill89]

man just have them come over

[Juggalotus17]

She is depressed because you're paying attention to your friends and not her.
If you have your friends over she'll get pissed about it, but not tell you.

Girls are very complex, sinister, and fucked up. Learn to read them asap, and try to work them from an angle. Use their own tricks and traps against them, also don't try showing her the truth, or what's right by using logic. Logic goes out the window when dealing with most women.

Not that all women are this bad, just 98%. The other 2% are probably reading this forum.