Well my mother always smoked weed, I started at 12-ish. My son will be 14 in a couple of months at this point he is a "young" 14, nothing like I was at his age.

I encourage him to come to me with things like this. I remain open minded, that way I know he will come to me, without fear of punishment, or judgement. If at this point I found out he did drugs I would bribe his ass with whatever it took to stop. ~lol~ I would even stop too, if it helped.

When he gets older, I would encourage him not to do it, but if he did I would probably smoke with him, in his late teens anyway (17 maybe) As for selling it to him, I smoke it I don't sell it, not even to family ~lol~

I do hope that he is smarter than I am, and takes a different path! I use to hide it from him, never smoked it in the house, would never roll it around him, and at 3 my friend came over and I was in the garage, my sis let her in, and she asked my kid, Where is your mom? And he said out in the garage smoking a joint!

Fuck I was so upset. Since then I explain that pot is a drug and that it is addicting and that it is my choice as an ADULT! And hope that does it!

Also I have been a waitress/bartender most of my working life, I have seen it all in the bars, I tell my son that I would much rather see him have a hoot than a drink! If either should be against the law, it should be booze!