find ppl that have the same interests as you. you shouldnt say whatever comes to your mind. think before you speak and remember that everyone takes things differnetly. you need to read others as best as you can so you know how they react. and just be yourself, ppl tend to act strange when they arent acting like theselves. acting strange like that could make other ppl feel ackward around you. you should be able to tell the best way to act from personal experiance.and if poeple dont repect u and shit on you, let them know that you dont like it and just say fuck em. and stick with the ppl that are similar to you.