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[jadeius]

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yeah he was joking, and i was joking, in case you haven't noticed yet

[Ganj]

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yeah he was joking, and i was joking, in case you haven't noticed yet

some people neglect to read the previous posts...

...i like what you said about people being insecure about their own, unidentified tendencies. i see that a lot, people who depict another person usually have the same traits that they're hating on...how else would someone notice it so well?

i'm not sure if this will make sense to you, can't really find the right words right now.

[jadeius]

well ganj, if you're talking to me, then i see what you're saying....as for everyone else....i'm sure they see it too...they're pretty damn understanding...like i said, if you hate it, you're probably unhappy about it, and if you're just really that unhappy about it, then you must be unhappy about something within yourself....the self dictates what we think about others...after all....others ARE exactly what make us ourselves....paradoxical? i think not.... you just have to put it in the right order.....others that we grew up learning from taught us things that we learned, and lo and behold, what you learn is what you demonstrate....monkey see, monkey do...human see, human do....so to everyone...you are basically a demonstration of all the different things you've learned and experienced...you reap what you sow....and that's the true meaning of it if you ask me....sorry i'm pretty GD drunk...

[mlleyeuxbleus]

Jadeius, hi! I, like some of the others, thought you were female because of your location... silly me. One of my dearest friends is an out & open guy; we are two of the least judgmental people I know, lol. It's nice to have at least a couple of people you can just be true with, very precious indeed.

As for all negative posting, eh. It's all about love, people. And by 'it' I mean this life. All our connections with others, our happiness, our clarity... it's all love. That's the ingredient that makes us feel alive and fulfilled, & not mere romantic love either, but a general state of being & interacting with everyone in one's path. Acting from that place within creates the most beautiful magic in the world. Everything else is just static.

[del...]

as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?

i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?

[LilRedDevil]

as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?

i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?

Thank you Del! I agree and almost brought it up a few weeks ago. Another site I go to kicks ya off for using such an ignorant term! I think that I was more pron to falling into that sort of talk when I was like 13, after that I see no excuse.

I find some people to be so freakin rude! As a matter of fact my son was grounded for saying a friend acts like some dumd retard Boy that pissed me off!

I am glad you pointed this out, sometimes it only takes a person hearing that "most people" find something rude before they even realize it themselves, I hope!

[ezjim]

as long as we're all being so PC now...what's the deal with "retard"?

i see no diff with using gay...well, actually one is more offensive...eh?

retard is offensive when used to describe a mentaly challenged person but when used to describe a run of the mill moron or asshole i think it is ok ..not apropriate but ok

[rastabill89]

i dont have no problem with gay people, your gay so good for you

[Mogizzle]

haha....thx guys for the kind words....yeah i find that most stoners don't really care anyways....don't worry i won't hit on ya lol...i have a "husband" whom i love very much and i wouldn't stray anyways....just lookin for something to do to pass the time like everyone else...yeah i just didn't want everyone to think i was a woman anymore lol...i can see why you'd think that

quite frankly i wouldn't care if some gay basher did have something bad to say...let 'em get it out they might feel better about their own inner homosexual tendencies....you'll find that when someone hates on you for something, that usually means they just wish they could be brave enough to be like that themselves...people that hate on stoners secretly admire that lifestyle and wish that their social barriers would allow for that in their life...same with gays, african-americans (their lifestyle is pretty damn appealing if you ask me), whatever you might be....

i always say, if you can't be proud of it, then you're probably not happy with it...

lurve u guys it's been real so far

I don't agree with what you say in bold.

You are trying to minimize any negative responses by claiming that they are secretley gay themselves for speaking out against you.

That pisses me off alot. And I just don't like gay people.

I won't go flaming you but I wont go helping you either.

[jadeius]

I don't agree with what you say in bold.

You are trying to minimize any negative responses by claiming that they are secretley gay themselves for speaking out against you.

That pisses me off alot. And I just don't like gay people.

I won't go flaming you but I wont go helping you either.

well, it is just opinion, and no i'm not trying to minimize negative responses, trust me, i'm like a rubber ball, it just bounces off of me...three years of nothing but negative comments toward me in high school is accountable for that...say what you want, you have the right to dislike anything or anyone...but just remember that i have the right to also dislike you for your intolerance and ignorance, i bet you don't know the first thing about gay people except they buttfuck, and that's not always even true, so yeah say what you want, but i guarantee that you're the only person that thinks you're not ignorant...