I only get my dog high. My cat hates it, so I don't blow it in her direction. My dig comes running though when he smells the reefer. He sits down beside me, and I just blow smoke in his direction. I don't grab him by the snout and force it on him, that's mean. I only give it to my pets when they want it. I think it's only abusive when they don't want it but the owner does it anyways. That's like someone grabbing a non-cig. smoker, and blowing it directly in their face.