Most of us will tell you that are you to wait before you
start cutting buds off of a plant ..because of the simple
fact that your not giving it enough time to grow and the
smoke isn't as good as it would be when it finishs the life
cycle stage so.i wouldn't cut it just yet

as for male plants ..most of us never even bother with them
we just throw them away and do not smoke them because of
the thc count being so low it might give you enough of a high
if you smoke a enough of it ..but when ever i smoked a male
all i got was a headache from it so it's not recommanded that
you smoke a male plant

with the female leaves you can do alot things with them but our
main concern is the bud of course ..maybe you should look oh how
to make "Hash

of course thats just a few pointers