the point y'all are missing is this was going on at the 'front page' of this site...iow, the entry point of most new members coming into our midst. that is the only reason the lounge is kept a bit cleaner than the others. play all the games ya want and twist the words however you wish but this has always been our policy here and elsewhere. if you want to post about tossing your baby kittens down the stairwell fine...but find a room other than the lounge or general rooms. if any of you here complaining had ever bothered to notice, the "lifestyles" section isn't moderated at all and i've never understood why it can't be taken there! well that is false...i do know why. it wouldn't make the drama of all this ongoing, neverending diatribe.

we compromised by giving you those open rooms...use them! that's all..what's so hard about that?