you have already answerd you're question. you like this girl so much that you spent all this time fauning over how to deal with the situation. stick with it man, keep it slow through school. she should know that school comes first. but the reason we all are hear is to find that soul mate and be happy. not work sleep, work sleep, untill we die. be happy, have fun. i made the mistake of letting my soul mate slipp away, and there is not a day that goes by that i kick myself for letting her go.