From what I've seen most of the older folks here, like myself, try to offer the younger folks genuine advice based on our life experiences. I personally think it is great that they have a place where they can get ansers. I didn't when I was their age. The hardest part is trying to offer our advice without sounding like we're patronizing them or being hypocrites.

Sure, sometimes their questions are about sex. I haven't seen anyone here trying to lure anyone into having sex with them, however. Some of the kids here are asking very legit questions and since they're asking here they're probably not getting answers elswhere. What are we supposed to say when they ask about sex? "Sorry kid, you're too young for sex" Do you really think they'll stop? No, they'll just go out and have uneducated, possibly unprotected, sex and most likely go away figuring it's usless to ask adults for advice.

As far as " showing them options for a life unadulterated by drugs" is concerned, are you fucking serious? How hypocritical would that be? I've smoked pot for 22 years, I've got no right to tell some kid they shouldn't do it themselves. I do try to steer them away from drugs like heroin and meth, however, but also let them know that I have tried them myself and know from experience that they are bad news.

I have a 2 year old daughter and hope that when she's older she'll know she can always talk to me about sex or drugs if she has a question. I will always be totally open and honest with her. In no way, shape, or form, however will I ever "back with the youngsters, crack some beers, smoke some joints, and watch some porn like good buddies" I feel sorry for your kids(assuming you have any) if you can't see the difference.