Dude I didn't have to read past the part where you said that you've never met her. Forget about her RIGHT NOW as this is not going to go anywhere, it's only gonna bring you pain. Listen kid, you can't be going out with someone for 2 years without ever meeting them, that's totally absurd. Just drop her, she probably grew up and realized that there is no sense in what you two are doing and decided to move on. Now wake up, and do the same.