'Sup y'all. Today is mine and my girlfriend's 9 month anniversary going out (9 months since my 18th birthday party ). It may not seem that long to a lot of users but it's the longest both of us have shared a relationship for and it's definitely something special. We're both very happy !

But here's the thing; Next September we both go to university, two totally different universities miles and miles apart from eachother. We have a fairly long distance relationship (about a 2 hour train journey) but it hasn't caused any problems ever.
We spent a couple of days with eachother this weekend and I was considering how quickly 9 months has passed and how much i'm beginning to miss her deeply when she leaves. We both care for eachother a lot and have never argued about anything, vowing we'd discuss a problem straight up, should one ever arise.

Here's my problem; It looks like I could go a long way with this girl. I'm not being overly optimistic, we just have such an understanding and acceptance of eachother that neither of us would give up in a hurry, but I can't stop thinking about how either way, this won't have a happy ending. I'd say we have a very good chance of staying together throughout our gap year, which means we'll be torn away from eachother in September. And after everything we'll have gone through, that'll be it. I can't bare the thought of it.

I asked her how she felt about that and she said we should just enjoy ourselves without worrying about the future. I think this is sensible but i'm stuck with this uneasiness everytime i'm with her or think about her. Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? How did it end for you? I'd ask for advice but I don't need it.

Cheers chums.
Button Basher Reviewed by Button Basher on . 9 month anniversary: Future? 'Sup y'all. Today is mine and my girlfriend's 9 month anniversary going out (9 months since my 18th birthday party ;) :p). It may not seem that long to a lot of users but it's the longest both of us have shared a relationship for and it's definitely something special. We're both very happy :) ! But here's the thing; Next September we both go to university, two totally different universities miles and miles apart from eachother. We have a fairly long distance relationship (about a 2 hour Rating: 5