Quote Originally Posted by GHoSToKeR
What's it like being married? I mean, i'm 18 and have never been interested in marriage; not yet, anyway. But I do wonder what it would be like to be connected to someone like that for the rest of your live[s]. Is it a nice feeling, a sad one? What?
Well, please don't take my proclimation of my floating through life by the seat of my pants as a downer to marriage. I LOVE being married...really. The best thing I did was do MY thing, whenever and with whomever I wanted when I was younger. I didn't get married until I was 26--and that was a good thing for me. Otherwise, I KNOW I would have started with the "What ifs" and regrets. I know what I am (or am NOT) missing out on. I enjoy my husbands company--we have FUN together. You have GOT to be friends--sooooooo important! Yes, we have our differences at times...which is healthy for a relationship. But if something were to happen to him (God forbid), I would be in NO rush to be out there dating or anything. I've done that...and I don't miss it!

Most important thing, to me anyhow, is that we lived together before we got married. Things change dramatically when you are sharing a roof--and bills, and all the other crap that comes along with being an "adult". The whole dynamic of the relationship changes...for us it was for the better. But that isn't always the case. I knew I wanted to marry this man...and before him, I really never had the "need" or desire to be tied to one person for the rest of my life. I am a sappy dork, and believe there are soulmates for everyone out there...and if you don't find that person, your chances in a long-term relationship aren't that great. Again, it's just my philosophy on the situation.

Live your life as a young adult...have your fun, and you'll not be worrying "did I make a mistake???"
IrieAllie Reviewed by IrieAllie on . Curious about sex.... ....got your attention, yes? Okay, I know it's been posted before--but mostly answered by those between the ages of 13-16. I am ASSUMING that those of us who have actually paid money to be in this little "cove" are adults...so I am going to ask. Does weed make you horny? Seriously. I have an issue with this--in all regards. If I am home alone and smoke, I head right for my sex toys. I mean, I can't stop thinking about it. Sex on the brain. Period. End of story. Obsessed. Now, say Rating: 5