ok this time it's NOT the wife..dude good luck, and atleast try not to sit there bitting the fuck outta your nails and all kinds of shit...get you a nice fat sack and chill out and relax, cuz if she is, you won't ever know the meaning of the word relaxation again....oh yea, get as much sleep as possible durring those LONG (yes it will seem long after a couple of months) 9 months....because the baby will wake up about every 3 hours at max to be taken care of, only to go back to sleep and repeat..for about the first 2-4 months.