wow this is like deja vu when i was a freshmen my friends and i started smokingbut they stopped and i didnt one of my friends got caught with shit he forgot about he blamed it on me and i had to go to bed wondering everynight when they would call my parents, so i came clean and they were like well we dont have a problem if ur safe and dont drink (alcohol problem in the family) and if u try to keep driving high to a minimum (my dad was a public defender had huge cases like that) they were suprisingly cool about it. even if ur family wont be that cool they will be happier to here it from u then another parent. getting that kinda info from another parent is like a slap in the face so if u have the balls u can stop the constant worry