You would think that having kids would make you larger, but I had a 10 1/2 lbs baby naturally, and sex with my husband has been somewhat painful ever since. My son is now 3, I have been to the doctor, and everything down there is fine. And my hubby can't seem to get enough of it, so I am pretty sure that I have "tightened back up". Either my hubby got bigger or I got tighter.

If the girl is doin her kegels, she will tighten right back up :P