What makes you think she wants to marry a muslim man Torog? She just wants people to learn more about the religion.

And there are plenty of good Muslim Americans and Britons that arn't so dedicated to Islam as to strip a woman of her freedom in the way you just described. Fundamentalist Christians are ALWAYS narrow-mindedly trying to convert people to their religion, at the same time there are good Christian folk that live by the Bible but whole-heartedly believe in each his own and therefore do not invade the space of others with their beliefs.

The same for Muslim folk. Should Lily or any other woman move to Saudi with a muslim husband with a strong muslim heritage in the family, they'd most definitely be under pressure to convert. However, many Muslims living under our Western culture understand that this is not how people should be treated in a democratic society and we make our own choices based on our own beliefs.

Surely you have met a muslim with an American accent Torog? You gotta remember they're not all faith-hungry, religion freaks, much like many Christians are not.