Could I add my honest thoughts?, Honesty is always the best policy, BUT some people struggle to be true to themselves therefore cannot handle the "everyday problems" within a relationship.

I was previously in a 9 year relationship...DONT LAUGH , but I was with a girl from the age of 12 until 21. Obviously we grew up and changed as people and were basically "stuck in a rut". I finished the relationship, not just for my personal well-being but for her also.

I was, and still am, an extremely possesive person and found myself incapable of controlling my anger when out on the drink. Even if another geezer looked at her, I was straight on the scene to check out his motives!

Fortunately, I am now starting (3 months) going out with a Richard who is really cool and seems to be enjoying our dates and nights in!.....

....only problem is.....I CAN ALREADY FEEL MYSELF WANTING TO PROTECT HER !!!

Cheers if you read any of this post...

Layton