How do you not let things bother you?

[GHoSToKeR]

lol u guys r fucking morons i cant believe u actually got back together wow. haha

Do I sense some bitterness? lol I don't remember your name - no offence - but your one of Penguin's friends, right? I haven't seen you here in ages.. ?

[ScarlettCrush]

I vote with the majority, just talk to her. Be calm and don't lay your trip on her, but do let her know how this makes you feel. If she cares for you she will chill out. (that's what you do when you like someone) If she doesn't then she is just running a game on you...either way you will know where you stand.

[Lily420]

Also if you do talk to her about how you feel make sure you tell her that you trust her but its him that you dont know and dont trust. good luck penguin!

[stoner spirit]

i suggest a voodoo doll of some sort

You have to get a lock of his hair, nail clippings, or a photo of him, then you can curse and hex him. Making a voodoo doll takes some work, besides the preparations you have to make for your workings. Just talk to your female friend and let her know how you feel about her talking to this Josh person. You don't need to use a voodoo doll for this, it would be a waist of time and energy.

[del...]

yeah, you could try all that voodoo stuff or other ways to hurt the guy but it might be best if you just try to be faithful to her...seems to me you have no right to say shit about her b'friends after the way you treated her...eh? you should consider yourself lucky she even talks to you!

hey, you asked...

[ZigZagZeppelin]

be a bigger man & let her talk to the dude if hes far away.

just remember u can talk to YOUR female friends....

[hardon]

man that sucks...dont let your girl end up with some guy known as joshy-poo....please dont....KICK HIS FUCKING ASS MAN!!!!! he cant be that tough. or you can take the civilized, less fun approach and talk to her about it.

[looseends]

imma tell ya'll something. for those of you talkin' that voodoo you'd better NOT be playing with that. voodoo is something you DO NOT speak in jest or it'll come back atchyou 3 fold. i have a girlfriend who studies wicca, (witchcraft). if you do things in spite-trust me they come back and bite you in your ass.

penguin-be honest with her. don't be an ass. there's too much work in this to just give up yet.

[LOVElife]

Could I add my honest thoughts?, Honesty is always the best policy, BUT some people struggle to be true to themselves therefore cannot handle the "everyday problems" within a relationship.

I was previously in a 9 year relationship...DONT LAUGH , but I was with a girl from the age of 12 until 21. Obviously we grew up and changed as people and were basically "stuck in a rut". I finished the relationship, not just for my personal well-being but for her also.

I was, and still am, an extremely possesive person and found myself incapable of controlling my anger when out on the drink. Even if another geezer looked at her, I was straight on the scene to check out his motives!

Fortunately, I am now starting (3 months) going out with a Richard who is really cool and seems to be enjoying our dates and nights in!.....

....only problem is.....I CAN ALREADY FEEL MYSELF WANTING TO PROTECT HER !!!

Cheers if you read any of this post...

Layton

[chris420]

dude just dont let ur emotions hit you, theres nothing more helpless and narcoticly stupifying than letting ur emotions overcome your thoughts. relax man either its nothing to worry about or u just dont need that kind of suppressive situations and let it drift away..