Under 18 Year Olds Having Sex

[trippruss]

our experiences in life make us who we are. i'm a 40yr male who started having sex when i was 13-14yrs. way too young, but it's each life experience that makes us who we are & now my 17yr boy is WAY

[trippruss]

too serious about his present girlfriend & that makes me worry. these mini-marriages have to be stopped. even my 14yr has been pressured into this whole "relationship" thing when they should be having fun. my older boy is always miserable & jealous about everything & anyone, bad scene. younger one is alittle more secure in himself so his "girlfriends" aren't as pushy. we need as parents to help develop self-esteem so that our kids aren't so f-in' needy. i knew girls in school that had such a need for attention that they would practically screw anyone just to feel good.

[WalkaWalka]

Ok so parents plz crack down on this whole relationship thing
Becuase IT IS FUCKING UP my fun I mean you have to lie to like 30 people just to have a girlfriend. The whole godamn school thinks like that. And if you dont make commitments your get slandered the girls get called whores and such.

[slipknotpsycho]

personally, even as parents i dont' see how you can feel it's right to tell your kids they can't have relationships at the age you had them. i've never liked parents in general because of the whole damned double standard thing. they always seem to think that just because they've went through it, seen the bad shit that comes along with it, it's ok to go and tell their kids they're not allowed to do it, just because "they don't want them to go down the same road they did" if you really cared you'd stop ordering your kids around and start talking to them, INFORMING them of what they're in for, instead of just saying something like "you're not old enough, you aren't responsible enough, and i've been there done that... i know where it takes you" with most kids these days ordering them only gets you the opposite effect of what you wish. your kids are people too, and they are going to have to make mistakes to learn from. don't get me wrong i'm not saying you should go out and encourage them to have sex, kill, and the like. i'm just saying, actually talk to them and let them know what's up and the possible reprecussions. for as long as i can remember, parents to me have seemed nothing more than an older person on a power trip.

[firsttimefarmer]

i'd rather wait till i'm 16 so its at least legal lol. one of my friends is preganant and shes 14. whore...

thats not a very nice thing to say, Why not try to be nice?

[weirdo79]

lol first time I was thinking the same thing, I wouldnt want to be gothicblood's "friend" sounds like she's really nice to em . Nothing better than being called down by your friends for stereotypical response where would her friend have been male he'de have been a stud......