we were never allowed to drink in the house when we were under age but my folks never complained about the weed they just said keep it away from the younger kids in our family and i still think it is way safer to have your kids smokin weed in the house than drinking dont worry about your mom if dad smokes id be willin to bet mom does as well i wont lie to my son i smoke around him when ever i go to visit him and his mom but she will only smoke with me or her self after our boy go's to bed go figure