even though my wife occasionally smokes, i get my assed chewed for it... i don't understand it myself..
when we first met, she told me she didn't have a problem with it... and i smoked at least 4 to 5 times a day, EVERY day.
then she got cocky about it after a few months...but i told her..
"This is what I do, this is me... take it or leave it".