We have a responsibility to protect those who can't protect themselves... the children. People's definition of protection and children etc varies. I think its noble that people care about the children, at the same time, best intentions of mice and man... Fundamentally I think almost all of us want the samething, good things for the ones we love, but we get caught up in peripherals.

I agree with you though jim... best to be open and honest with the kids. I don't think that means pass them the j, but it certainly doesn't mean flat out lieing. I'm not a parent though