well as many of you know now, i'm a 21 year old male with a 40 year old boyfriend...and he is the love of my life...he has stopped all his old habits, no cigarettes, no weed, no alcohol, no pills, no psychadelics...he makes me wonder how he could just give it all up...but he did have a liver cirrhosis episode that almost cost him his life...so he's clean now, for the sake of living and sharing this wonderful life with who else but me?!