Its cool that you are gay it makes no difference to the kind of person you are inside.Thats pretty sad that they do that shit to you its not nice at all.I am not a lesbian but i gave it a go for a while because i was always curious and i stayed with her for about 8 mths and it was good while it lasted.If things dont work out with my life and the person that i am with i will never be with another man again and that is very honestly true.When i met my bf i was a little confused about what i wanted and i told him the truth and that i had a girl right before i met him.He was ok with that at the time but it bothers him now he always thinks i want sex with other girls and its not the case.Anyways i told my family about her and they had even met her and knew she was a lesbian and when i was having a psychosis i told them that i was with her.They have never ever mentioned it to me but my partner told me they asked him some stuff about it.If someone in my family asks me something i will tell the truth always and i think thats why they never say anything about it because they know i will tell them the truth and its not what they want to hear.Its very good that you dont try and hide the fact that you are gay.Just be proud and if you can make fun of being gay yourself u will get along easier they will think your the coolest.I know this massive fat guy who is always saying fat jokes it just makes me think he is great because he makes fun of himself and then nobody else would even think about making fun of him.