Hi Satovan! I think the men who are covering up their asses in fear of being raped (as silly as that sounds) are ignorant and insecure with themselves. It's not your problem that they can't handle it. I know that's not going to make you feel any better, but really, I have many gay friends and they have no problem here in NY. Is there a gay community in your town? Are there a lot of gay people in your area?

I'm sorry you had to deal with so much bullshit in your life. When people don't understand something or don't want to understand something, they fear it.

Be happy with yourself and don't let anyone bring you down.